Make the pastry cream: In a medium saucepan, combine 1 cup heavy cream, 2/3 cup milk, 6 tablespoons of the 1/2 cup granulated sugar, 1/8 teaspoon salt, and the seeds scraped from 1/2 vanilla bean plus the empty vanilla bean pod. Heat over medium, stirring occasionally, until the mixture reaches a gentle simmer (small bubbles at the edge). Do not let it boil vigorously.
While the cream heats, whisk together 4 large egg yolks and the remaining 2 tablespoons of the 1/2 cup granulated sugar in a bowl until well blended. Whisk in 3 tablespoons cornstarch until smooth and slightly paler.
Temper the yolks: remove the vanilla pod from the hot cream. Pour about 1/2 cup of the hot cream into the yolk mixture in a slow, steady stream while whisking vigorously (start with about 1 tablespoon at a time, then continue more quickly) to raise the yolks’ temperature without scrambling.
Return the tempered yolk mixture to the saucepan with the remaining hot cream. Reduce the heat to medium-low and cook, whisking constantly, until the mixture thickens and comes to a gentle boil; keep it at a gentle boil for about 30 seconds while whisking to cook out any starchy taste.
Immediately strain the custard through a fine-mesh sieve into a bowl to remove any lumps. Stir in 1 tablespoon unsalted butter until melted and incorporated. Press a piece of plastic wrap directly onto the surface of the custard to prevent a skin from forming. Chill thoroughly in the refrigerator for about 2 hours (or until fully chilled and set).
Preheat the oven to 350°F (175°C). Line a 12-cup muffin pan with paper liners.
In a medium bowl, whisk together 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour, 1 teaspoon baking powder, and 1/4 teaspoon salt. Set the dry mix aside.
In the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle (or using a hand mixer), beat 1/2 cup unsalted butter (room temperature) with 3/4 cup plus 2 tablespoons granulated sugar until light and pale, about 3–4 minutes.
Add 1 large egg and beat until incorporated. Add 2 large egg whites and 1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract and beat until combined.
With the mixer on low, add half of the dry flour mixture and mix just until combined. Add 1/2 cup whole milk and mix until combined. Add the remaining half of the dry flour mixture and mix just until the batter is smooth and uniform. Do not overmix.
Divide the batter evenly among the 12 prepared muffin cups, filling each about two-thirds full. Bake in the preheated oven 21–24 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of a cupcake comes out clean. Rotate the pan halfway through baking if your oven heats unevenly.
Transfer the cupcakes to a wire rack and cool completely before assembling.
Assemble the cupcakes: remove the chilled pastry cream from the refrigerator and, if needed, whisk briefly to loosen. Using a piping bag or a spoon, pipe or spread an even layer of pastry cream onto the top of each cooled cupcake (about 1–2 tablespoons per cupcake, as needed).
Sprinkle a thin, even layer of 1/3 cup granulated sugar over the pastry cream on the cupcakes (divide evenly across all 12 cupcakes).
Working one cupcake at a time, caramelize the sugar with a kitchen torch until the sugar melts and turns a deep amber color. Let the caramelized sugar cool and harden for a minute or two.
If desired, top each cupcake with whipped cream and a fresh raspberry. Serve immediately. (Note: the pastry cream can be made the day before; cupcakes can be baked a few hours ahead. Do the sugar topping and torching just before serving.)